The journey to success continue...

I'm age 32 now. Am i getting better as age grow up day by day? Well, looking back my life journey I would rather summarize it a failure or rather called it disaster. I'm lucky enough parent do save enough to ensure I have a good education. Well, I think I did them PROUD in terms of my result. Thereafter, my working life stary rather than call it a career yet. The mindset was clear to learn as much as possible and groom myself to have my own career. What I have learn during my early was all about marketing, gimmicks and illussion. Basically, I live in illussion in simple word. I forgot the basics in LIFE which is INTEGRITY, HONESTY AND TRUSTWORTHINESS. Well, all 3 together is not enough to carry us far but it is most fundamental requirement. Well, A Man need to fail to learn their lesson and chop away the EGO. It was painful but I'm just a lucky man in this world. As a result, I need to learn the hardway, painful to grow up become wiser, matured, able to make analytical decision and most of all able to independent to take care my own family members at the very least. Does it sound a little joke, right? MBA student, good result, good attitude yet can end up the very wrong way. Today is year 2014 April, the time continue to tick with no turn back button. What had past can be forgiven but can't be forget. Reason is to serve me as reminder or alarm clock for rest of my life. To be successful, one must be extremely hardwork in dedicating the times to do something that can bear fruit in yhe future. Sacrifices in terms of enjoyment, self gratification, time with your family and friends. I can say that it is never easy to achieve this. You have to communicate with the closest in your life on your action, so that they can understand abit and not grabbing your productive hours. It is painful but that is the only way I learned to become successful and rich person. Building an empire is one hell of a task, dealing with human is extremely complex. It is like constructing shopping complex. What you have learn and acquired may not guarantee you success. You need intuiton in business. Six sense? Bomoh? Really? I believe intuition derived from experience. Experience come from accumulation of mistakes in the past. It gives u a picture not to repeat nor try the same thing. Else Albert Einstein screw us up coz he already told us about INSANITY definition. In life, we don't need to be smart if we not one. Do the right thing, deliver it on time each and everytime, the opportunity will come knocking one day. That Day will come and i call it 'good luck and good fortune', it pours. Your life and family life will be change completely. The dream you have will appear in reality. The Self Satisfaction is the 4th Needs in Maslow Hiraerchy. It mean you have grown up to another level. You definitely become better person. We shall never sit in comfort level because it is a dangerous position. We must continue to learn and discover what we don't know. Because nobody can steal your knowledge. With profound knowledge we can become competence in what we are doing. Which mean we are damn good and expert in our respective field. Well, time flies and we gotta continue the bus journey. Hopefully the next time i blog again i'm 10 times or 100 times better than what i'm today in terms of physical, physiology, mentally, financially and PRIDE. Wish everyone and my family members enjoy and cherish what we have everyday coz no one can have everything throughout the LIFE. Cheers.

Resort World Miami set to be unveiled

Tan Sri Lim Kouk Thai set to unveiled RM 9.3 billion at Miami, Florida. The Genting empire continue to grow and expand. Tan Sri follow his father footstep and went one step higher. The casino license yet to be approve. Malaysian really should proud of themselves and many tychoons make their presence felt.

First Tan Sri Tony Fernandes bought BPL's side QPR and immediately bought host of player and David Beckham is their immediate target by January. Their home jersey carry the 'Malaysia Airline' while away 'AirAsia'. They willl be at KL next summer.

Next, Tan Sri Vincent Tan who own the Wales side Cardiff City. The side don the 'Malaysia' sponsor jersey. Yesterday the Cardiff town welcome Malaysia Beckham, Safee Sali, he stayed at hotel next to training ground and immediately been tried out the next day. Wish him the best before he back to Indonesia Pelita Jaya FC. He will do fine here in South East Asia, honestly.

Ah Jib also announce some exciting news thru radio and television yesterday. Wish Malaysia happy birthday and Malaysia Memang Boleh!

Happy mooncake festival 2011

Wish everybody a nice mooncake festival n to the kids, time to play angry birds tanglung..hoho.

Thanks God is Friday

It was indeed lucky Friday. Start the day with Nasi Lemak, lunch Nasi Lemak again. Yet to watch Nasi Lemak 2.0.. Haha. Then when i arrive home at 9pm for dinner, found out my Beemer is not as usual parking spot. The uneasy feeling arise and immediately look for an answer. Both the ladies seem so suprise and thought i was kidding to them. To seek an answer, i back to the carpark on every level and thanks God, its there at one level below.

Clamped and proceed to guardhouse to solve it. Along the walk, selipars give up on me and walk through step by step to settle the clamped tyre issue. God bless, it was solved n kena issue final warning.. Mama, don't worry. Be extra alert next time around. Everybody is safe, the car is safe. Thanks God is Friday:)

Enjoy the weekend.

Veronica Cadence Yeoh

That's our precious princess name and she is already a Chelsea fan..muahahahaha

I'm Back, Yes I'm back

Good Evening Bloggers,

Finally i'm back after hibernating myself for some time. I'm a daddy now to my beloved daughter Veronica. She was born on April 21st 2011 at 6.59pm at Kinta Medical Centre. Thanks God for the blessing that she and my wife are both healthy. It was a special feeling when Veron arrive and my tears start to drop when she open her eyes about 5 min she born. Frankly, i had fall in love for the second time in my life.

Daddy got to work hard to ensure the family demand are met continously. To my mom, her wish came true and she is busy again to nurture her beautiful grandchild. Healthy always. To grandpa, he as busy as always, hope you may find some space and time for us and wish you great career ahead.

Make this world a better place to live. As the world is unforgiving, the New Age Principle took over. No more Big Fish ate the Smaller Fish are no longer applicable instead the Faster Fish ate the Slower Fish took over. If you still ponder what is best for yourself, you gotta start your first step Right NOW. Right or wrong, the JUDGE (result) will determine.

Take care.

Jokes of the weekend

A young man went to his father one day to tell him thathe wanted to get married.His father was happy for him. He asked his son who thegirl was, and he told him that it was Samantha, a girl fromthe neighborhood.With a sad face the old man said to his son,''I'm sorry to say this son but I have to. The girl you want to marry is your sister, but please don't tell your mother.''The young man again brought three more names to hisfather but ended up frustrated because the response wasstill the same.So he decides to go to his mother.''Mom I want to get married but all the girls thatI love, dad said they are my sisters and I mustn't tellyou.''His mother smiling said to him,''Don't worry my son, you can marry any ofthose girls. You're not his son.

Top Joke in Northern Ireland

A doctor says to his patient, 'I have bad news and worse news'.'Oh dear, what's the bad news?' asks the patient. The doctor replies, 'You only have 24 hours to live'. 'That's terrible', said the patient. 'How can the news possibly be worse?' The doctor replies, 'I've been trying to contact you since yesterday'. Top Joke in UKA woman gets on a bus with her baby. The bus driver says: 'That's the ugliest baby that I've ever seen. Ugh!' The woman goes to the rear of the bus and sits down, fuming. She says to a man next to her: 'The driver just insulted me!' The man says: 'You go right up there and tell him off, go ahead, I'll hold your monkey for you.

Top Joke in USA

A man and a friend are playing golf one day at the ir local golf course. One of the guys is about to chip onto the green when he sees a long funeral procession on the road next to the course. He stops in mid-swing, takes off his golf cap, closes his eyes, and bows down in prayer. His friend says: 'Wow, that is the most thoughtful and touching thing I have ever seen. You truly are a kind man.'The man then replies: 'Yeah, well we were married for 35 years.'

Top Joke in England

Two weasels are sitting on a barstool. One starts to insult the other one.He screams, 'I slept with your mother!' The bar gets quiet as everyone listens to see what the other weasel will do. The first again yells, 'I SLEPT WITH YOUR MOTHER!' The other says, 'Go home dad you're drunk.'

Love you always..

Just back from Genting Highlands with family members. It was an enjoyable trip, got to spend time with each and every of the family members. People said we are one very "weird family" where each and every one of us don't stay together. Thus, very seldom we meet each other.

I travel alot and almost every week to got back ipoh to take care of my business and most importantly my mom. She been alone in the house. Its very pain as she live alone. She derserve more than this. SO, we decided that she will move down to Kl to stay with us. Both me and my brother will company her more often. Pauline also can spend more time with her.

She closed down her furniture business back year 2005 because of health issue. She was fully recovered and we decided its time for her to shut down the business and retire early. She is very smart lady and very independent. Me, Henry and Stephenie are extremely closed to her all this time while my dad got to stay outstation to earn living and support every one of us. He got no choice but to sacrifice to keep us alive all this years.

As we completed our studies, my brother move to Kl and my sis went to Penang to continue her tertiary study. I got to stay in Kl to build my empire with my dad. Thus, i'm very painful to leave my mom in Ipoh. So, i must ensure i travel back every week to home town to company her. I never miss it every single week for past 1 year. That is my commitment.

During the past, a couple can raised 10 childrens and NOW 10 childrens can't take care the parents. I keep this principle in my life. Make sure 3 of us will take care our parents. Never send them to old folks home. Remember, there is always a KARMA.

I'm a tired now after trip back from Genting. I'm extremely pain in my heart and drop to tears when my mom call my in tears. She is unhappy today. Myself, Henry and Stephenie drop to tears. Mom, just forgive and forget. Better tomorrow await you. We all loves you so much. I promise u will never stay alone again. We will be with you forever.

We will take good care of you and ensure you are happy all the times ok...this year we will have our wedding dinner and hopefully with blessing you will become a grandmother soon ok...:)

Don't think so much. We loves you.

Happy New Year.

Happy New Year

Its the last day of 2009. It also mark the end of the first decade of new millenium. Many people claim that this is one of the toughest decade faced by people. It started with Y2k, then Mad cow disease, SARS, Hurricane Katrina, Tsunami, H1N1, earthquakes and typhoon and many more and Tiger's 14's birdies end the first decade. Many people stay defiant, focus on the goal and overcame the disaster to start new chapter in their lives. Look at Banda Aceh, many people started their business again after tsunami swipe the whole town. They are really tough nuts. Great respect to all of them.

As for myself, it been a learning decade for myself. Start with college education, where i met my first love and she is now my wife. I begin my career in life insurance business when i'm 20 years old and it will be my 8th year in this business. It's a learning curve for me, to learn what is right and what is wrong. To many, it's a shame that i only learn this at age 20's. Should have learn it during primary school.

Thanks to my mentor which is my father. I got to say, you're the best. It's definitely not easy at all. It likes army training everyday. I accepted the challenge and it's been very very tough 365 days for myself. Change yourself if you want a better results, that is a very clear message to me. Day by day, i walk and stumble, walk and stumble, and never give up. I always said i have nothing good or special within myself, but my determination carry me through this 365 days. The determination to prove yourself is the ultimate motivation. Well, when i look back it worth every penny of it.

Along the way, more than 250 very special clients give me tremendous support. You turn my life around. Without any one of you, i will not achieve what i have today. I would like to thanks each and every one of you from the bottom of my heart. I will remember everyone of you forever in my life.

To my family members, i love you all so much. You stand by me when everybody look down upon me. I know is extremely hard when somebody said bad things about their own children. Now, i able to walk again and i will keep my feet well on the ground. We are one family and we will be together forever.

Thanks to all Manulife staffs to give me great assistance all year long. Special thanks to each and everyone of you from Ipoh RSC to PJ RSC and KL HQ.

This year is a very memorable year to remember. Finally, we able to achieve what we can only dream for in the past. It started with Court of the Table (COT), Top Agent 2009, Top Rookie UM 2009, Top Unit Manager 2009, IDA Silver Dragon Award, Top Unit Manager Growth Award, Namlifa Platinum Producer Award, Namlifa Direct Group Award.

Well, it means nothing if we stop right here. Stay focus every minute to ensure achieve what we aim for. Sacrifice your leisure to ensure you get what you really wanted.

Yesterday, my mentor drop me a very educating and meaning message, i share with you guys here. It sound something like this:

"open your heart and mind. U have grown up and will soon be a father urself. U have read so many books. Be wise and fillial. Control ur ego. Take ur customers interest as paramont. Be thankful for what u had achieved. U have been made a champion by all those who help u, big and small. Rejoice and remain humble. Don't spend ur wealth away. Open ur heart to the world"

I will keep this and practice it everyday in my life. I will make you a very proud father one day.

So, lets celebrate the last day of 2009 and welcome the year 2010, the year of Tiger. Hopefully, it will be another exciting year for each and every one of us. May all your dreams come true and bringing dream to life.

----cheers-----

Brand New Toy from Uncle Bayi Singh

Day of joy and a day to remember. Eleven months of hardwork, dedication and focus and the sadness to let my mom and wife at ipoh to left KL to pursue on my career and tonnes of advice from my dad, uncle bayi singh present me a TOY that i loves so much. BMW 325i. A toy had so much meaning than my previous Toyota Vios. I would like to thanks all my clients, associates, my brother Henry, my sister Stephenie, my Mom and Dad and my beloved angel Pauline. Thanks from the bottom of my heart.

My tears drop non stop since this morning, i felt emotional when i look back my life for the last 11 months when i first arrive at KL.Thanks to my DAD once again, your guidance that money can't buy and i will remember and practice for the rest of my life.

Thanks GOD for your blessing. I will continue to work hard and contribute more to society, I will continue to do alot more charity without any recognition.

Thanks my Mom, your patience and worried about me everyday is gone. You are far more happier now. I love you always.

Thanks Henry and Stephenie, we are siblings forever, keep our relationship intact, stay close and strong together.

Thanks to my angel Pauline, your 9 years of patience with me-i love you forever. Finally we will get our marriage dinner confirm on 23 MAY 2010. Special day to keep in calender.

Thanks Sathiya from Tian Siang for your support on Pauline, i never break promise on you.

Thanks to all my clients and my potential clients, without everyone of you, i will not achieve anything in my life.

Here is snap shot of my BMW 325i

Weekend motivation...

When I woke up this morning lying in bed, I was asking myself;
What are some of the secrets of success in life?
I found the answer right there, in my very room.

Million $$ questions

Q: Why are condoms transparent?
A: So that sperm can at least enjoy the scene even if their entry is restricted!

Signboard outside a prostitute's house:
Married MEN not allowed. We serve the needy, not the greedy....

New AIDS awareness slogan:
Try different positions with the same woman instead of same position with different women.

Why is sex like shaving?
Well, because no matter how well you do it today... tomorrow you'll have to do it again...

What will happen if earth rotates 30 times faster?
Men will get their salary everyday and women will bleed to death.

Why do 90% of women have their left breast bigger than the right?
Because 90% of men are right handed.

What is the difference between UNDERWEAR & a STAGE CURTAIN?
When you pull down the STAGE CURTAIN, the show is over, but when you pull down the UNDERWEAR...... it is SHOWTIME!

What is the similarity between a wife and a chewing gum?
Both are sweet in the beginning but become tasteless and shapeless later

Advantages of having an affair with a married women.
They give like hell.
They do not yell.
They do not tell.
They do not swell and there is no wedding bell!

My dad told me that if Adam and Eve were Chinese, we would be still in Paradise . Why? Because they would have eaten the snake instead of the bloody apple!

Thanks GOD!

After finished up our appointment at 2pm, we start to go home and pack our luggage to drive back to ipoh. We pick up both moms and my brother in law along the way. We have a smooth journey home until we arrive at Slim River, Perak where loud sounds came from the back of the car, we slow down the car on the emergency lane and for safety reason, i went out alone to check out what wrong with the car. Immediately i found out one of the back Run Flat tyre failed.

I cal SOS phone on the roadside and is not working until the Plusline Ronda arrive to assist us. He told us the car need to be towed to BIDOR to get our tyre change. After further discussion, we decided to bring the tyre only to BIDOR and get it replaced.

Gosh, when the tyre removed out from the car, the Run Flat tyre completely burst and the Polis Plusline said we must thanks GOD that saves our lives. As we run on very high speed along the highway, the tyre really saves us. I pray to GOD nothing bad happens to my family members as i alone follow the Police to BIDOR to get new tyre.

After an hour, i finally back to Slim River and fix the new tyre into the position. All my family members is in order and i truly thanks GOD for your blessing. I will keep continue to do ONLY good things in life and help more people. I will keep giving more to people and expect less.

I'm truly tired now after many days of extreme hard work with my wife and thanks to our clients who believe in us and gives us a chance to serve them. Thanks. We will do a good job.

Have a nice weekend. Godnite.

I would like to say thanks to GOD that really saves our lives. GOD bless.

I'm back...

July since i last blog, i left out the blog in search of true meaning of life and also my career. After months of thought and taught, i understand more about life. We must know what is right and wrong first before we step into the second stage.

In life most of us search for true happiness. What is true happiness? Earn good income that you never earn before? You prove yourself that you can do it as well? or you have good cars or big bangalow? Or travel around the world without having to work? In life, the true happiness came from doing the right thing and a glimpse of smile from your clients and also your beloved family members. For example, a claim cheque deliver to a client is the true happiness in life. The sense of responsibility, work dedication, caring to our customer. You really did a proper job in the right way.

That is what i'm embarking on to search for true happiness. It is a long tough roads in front with many seem not convince, not believing, nor bother about it. To accomplish that journey, we must first really determine to achieve it, only then we able to walk step by step, to defy other peoples criticism, people condemn about you and people start to query about your mission, it is true..you want to do this?

Only you can make the difference. Only you can answer the question. People said once you made a mistake, you tend to wake up and then follow back the same old path again because of their perception. Only you yourself know the answer.

We must be thankful to everybody who help us along the way. Simple word of thanks. However, we must always keep the word thanks deep in our heart and remember them forever. Always believe in KARMA. How you treat people is how they will treat us back.

Be honest, have integrity and be professional in whatever we do. We will never go wrong if we follow this philosophy. Trust is something you need to earn yourself. Keep doing the right thing, and things will be all right. Life is more peaceful and everybody beside you also share the same atmosphere.

Be a Man and live like a man. To everybody, year 2009 is about the end. Make sure, we don't leave anything behind, forward is the way to go. No regret. Make it a successful year. Compete in the most positive and healthy way.

Whatever the outcome or position at the end of the year is not important, what more important you did put in tremendous amount of hard work along the way and do it with honesty, integrity and professionalism. Best of luck to everyone, VAMOS!!!!!!!!

Success the Feng Shui Way

Hardwork people always become rich people, lazy people definitely poor people: by Joey Yap

Today is Saturday, no half day work but full day work. Early in the morning, went to client's office and meet one of the client. Although i had to wait for him for about an hour, the patience paid off handsomely and the client agreed to invest for his children's education plan. Great way to start a brand new day.

This customer is generous enough as through conversation, i mentioned i will move in to my new house at Puchong Prima in 2 weeks time and he straight away without hesitation gives me a present that i loves very much. Thanks Uncle C T. I will fulfill my promise and responsibility with honesty. I'm just a lucky boy.

Then i spend time to celebrate birthday party at the company. I had satay and cake, very nice indeed. I ate simple nowadays. That how i become slimmer and fitter and have great looks::))

Thereafter i had to rush to Sunway Resort Hotel to meet my new partner, Ruben. We had Joey Yap for company. He shared his success story, how an accounting student graduate become a master in feng shui and become multi millionaire at the age of 32. Magnificent, a standard and benchmark for me and my group of people to achieve. He mentioned we need to work hard everyday and don't waste time on unnecessary things if we really want to change our current lifestyle so as wealth. Lazy people are poor people and no need to seek advice from feng shui consultant.

Then my wife, Pauline, bought Joey Yap's book title "Feng Shui for Homebuyers" personally signed by Joey Yap and we had several photo shots. Lucky girl, hope it will bring more lucks when we move to our new home.

Then, from business to become family man. I brought my wife pauline, Henry and Karen to have dinner at Pavillion. Simple and nice dinner. I'm happy because mom and everybody is happy. My wife of course now more happier person than ever before, she had all the freedom to do whatever or buy whatever she prefer.

I'm a bit tired now but im still very ok. Enjoy your weekend. Take care.

Story to LIVE by

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.'

One day,someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.

He asked her, 'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?' Thegirl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her lifeled her to refuse to marry him.

Her boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes. Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.

Today before you say an unkind word - Think of someone who can't speak.

Before you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone who has nothing to eat.

Before you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someonewho's crying out to GOD for a companion.

Today before you complain about life - Think of someone who died too early on this earth.

Before you complain about your children - Think of someone who desires children but they're barren.

Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or sweep - Think of the people who are living in the streets.

Before whining about the distance you drive Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.

And when you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.

But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another - Remember that not one of us is without sin.

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile onyour face and think: you're alive and still around.

Attitude

1. Attitude is Everything

The process of human change begins within us. We all have tremendous potential. We all desire good results from our efforts. Most of us are willing to work hard and to pay the price that success and happiness demand.

Each of us has the ability to put our unique human potential into action and to acquire a desired result. But the one thing that determines the level of our potential that produces the intensity of our activity, and predicts the quality of the result we receive is our attitude.

Attitude determines how much of the future we are allowed to see. It decides the size of our dreams and influences our determination when we are faced with new challenges. No other person on earth has dominion over our attitude. People can affect our attitude by teaching us poor thinking habits or unintentionally misinforming us or providing us with negative sources of influence, but no one can control our attitude unless we voluntarily surrender that control.

No one else "makes us angry." We make ourselves angry when we surrender control of our attitude. What someone else may have done is irrelevant. We choose, not they. They merely put our attitude to a test. If we select a volatile attitude by becoming hostile, angry, jealous or suspicious, then we have failed the test. If we condemn ourselves by believing that we are unworthy, then again, we have failed the test.

If we care at all about ourselves, then we must accept full responsibility for our own feelings. We must learn to guard against those feelings that have the capacity to lead our attitude down the wrong path and to strengthen those feelings that can lead us confidently into a better future.
If we want to receive the rewards the future holds in trust for us, then we must exercise the most important choice given to us as members of the human race by maintaining total dominion over our attitude. Our attitude is an asset, a treasure of great value, which must be protected accordingly. Beware of the vandals and thieves among us who would injure our positive attitude or seek to steal it away.

Having the right attitude is one of the basics that success requires. The combination of a sound personal philosophy and a positive attitude about ourselves and the world around us gives us an inner strength and a firm resolve that influences all the other areas of our existence.

Moral story of the day

Keep Movin Forward

After 6 months of hardwork but still not hard enough, this is the day to review and study what went wrong and what went right in the first half. Success is easy to achieve by talking. It is never easy by action. Yet every people on this planet chose to be successful by talking.

To be successful by action, we really require lots of everything from hardwork, passion, right attitude, planning and timing and so many more. When we move forward, there is always obstacles, challenges that try to hinder you from movin forward or even pull you few steps back. This is the most crucial part among others. The ability to counter challenges and stay mentally tough by keep movin one step ahead at a time until we reach our ultimate goal for the year. Many people would have given up by this time citing numerous reasons and excuses.

To stay defiant, we really need to know what is our objectives, why are we work so hard? Work so hard to achieve what? What do you really want to achieve by year end? Once we got this answer comprehensively, then this "distraction" will not stop us from movin forward. We not only need to move but move in a very fast pace manner. The world is not stopping for any second, we got to make every second out of it.

That become a self motivation everyday, no matter what criticism you receive on that day, you know clearly what you want in life, make a super effort to change and defy their criticism. Thats to me is the most effective way to prove to yourself. Always challenge yourself and not challenge others. Only then, we can keep movin forward everyday. Don't compare yourself with anybody, because everyone is unique by themselves.

For me, i will to double my current effort to ensure i achieve my ultimate goal for the year. I never learnt so much as before with passionate guidance from my mentor. I never change so much without him. My work commitment and attitude become even better under him. Thanks so much, results at the end of the year is the best present for him.

Don't let ego that the small results that achieved 6 months ago carry into my head. It is very important to stay focus 200%. Result means nothing if i stop right here right now and start to "enjoy", this is not the right way.

I learnt everyday that if we continue to do good things everyday, good things will come everyday. Keep doing the right things in everything we do. Finally, i must or we must to stay HONESTY, INTEGRITY, AND PROFESSIONALISM if we choose to be successful in our lives.

To be honest, live is very fun when we successful, thus keep working very very hard and make ourselves very very rich. Then life is even doubly fun.

For today sunday, i have full day appointment back in ipoh, not dating, not lunch or dinner gathering but to provide solutions to customer needs. Take care and best wishes.

Break in Life

Today i will take a day off and have a rest day at Genting with my full family members. Something i always look for in my life. God bless, we will have a family dinner together that i loves so much that was missing for most part of my life.

After months of hardwork but still not hard enough, we decided to have a day off, to recharge battery before continue our battle again next monday. Life is tough, always be prepared mentally and physically.

To become the Champion require lots more effort, dedication, passion, and so much more. I will give my utmost best to ensure i achieve it by year end. That is the greatest gifts to each and every of my family members that loves me so much.

Take care, enjoy your weekend.

COT next..

Good Morning. It is 5.30am now, fresh from yesterday 8 hours slept. I was exchausted the day before because of work commitment. I never complaint about it because every piece of the sacrifices paid off handsomely.

Now, this is crucial period in my life again, to ensure and remind myself everytime not to let ego control my life and get too excited about something. The war is not finish nor not even half way point. There are still so much work need to be plan, strategize and do to ensure i win the war. Stay focus and continue work dedication and continue to serve all my customers faithfully.

I will go to office soon, now Court of the Table (COT) is the next mission, i promise myself and to my family members, i will do my utmost best to achieve it, something so special that i never ever dreamt about it since i joined this career 7 years ago. Sky is the limit, there is bo barrier to stop you BUT only ourself can stop it. Go all out, make very sure no regret in life. Life is fun...

Once again, thanks to my parents, wife and to all my priviledge customers, sincere thanks from my bottom of my heart. Thanks so much...

take care.

I'm resigning

Dear all, i'm officially resigning to join uncle bayi singh to travel around the world. The reason is he call me up this morning with his monster truck and presented me with this:

Thanks uncle bayi singh..lets go!!!Don't wait, the world is waiting for us to explore.

The long wait is over...

Finally, after 7 years the long wait is over, my dream to become a member of Million Dollar Round Table (MDRT) is realized. My heartfelt thanks to each and everyone of my customers that landed me a huge support throughout my career. Thanks again and to my family members thanks..

will continue to work very very hard everyday and to do the right things in life.

honesty.integrity.professionalism is the key in pursuit to become Champion of the Year 2009.

Thanks...

Home on Sunday

Im back to Ipoh late evening yesterday to spend quality time with my lovely mom and of course my wife. To be frank, i'm a boy who will be home sick everytime. But that the sacrifices that i should and will take to develop my career and continue to pursuit my journey to become Champions this year. I had a flash back while i'm driving alone and i felt emotional in the sense that i really work so hard everyday to pursuit my goal of the year and my journey to become millionaire at very young age.

It really worth it when you begin to see the results start to kickin, it's just the beginning and nothing will be taken to granted. Focus and continue dedication to do the right things everyday is far more important that what had been achieved. Thanks to all my customers that landed me a huge support, thanks so much. I will do my utmost to deliver timely service to all of you.

Nothing really counts if i don't achieve our end results and stop right now and be happy and satisfied with what i have. Thanks to my guru, i have a chance to experience something i never had a chance experienced before, i achieve something i never achieved before, and so many other eye-opening experiences, i treasure and learn from it. Opportunity is not always around, but once it comes, be 200% sure don't let it go.

I will continue to dedicate myself in my career and build strong and sustainable empire. The road will never be smooth so as the sea where it will be as rough as ever, life is not meant to be smooth anyway, it is the courage and self determination that will determine a successful person or vice versa. Don't give up no matter how many criticism it will be directed towards you, take it and move on in our lives. Be tough mentally and be sure what you want in lives and always have a plan that can be execute right now.

May will end in couple of weeks time, time moves as fast as it can, we can't afford any wastage as times mean money. Don't look left and right anymore, straight ahead is the road where we all want to go.

Will back to Kuala Lumpur on tuesday and war will start again. Very challenging, be sure you equipped properly only win is the only solution to the problems.

Enjoy your weekend, as for my guru, he still had couple of appointments today. He is tough machine and will never stop working. Best of luck and see you next week.

Cheers...

Feng Shui Bless Message

ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.
THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.
FOUR. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.
FIVE. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.
SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.
SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much. NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.
TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.
ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.
TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
THIRTEEN! .. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'
FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
FIFTEEN. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze. SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.
EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice
TWENTY- ONE. Spend some time alone.

god bless and happy mothers day to mom, i love you..

Saturday Jokes

Government Job

A guy went to the Post Office to apply for a job. The interviewer asked him, 'Are you allergic to anything? He replied, 'yes - caffeine'. Have you ever been in the military service? 'Yes,' he replied.' I was in Iraq for two years.' The interviewer said, 'That will give you 5 extra points toward employment.

Then he asked, are you disabled in any way?' The guy said,

'Yes.... a roadside bomb exploded near me and I lost both of my testicles.' The interviewer said O.K. - You've got enough points for me to hire you right now. Our normal hours are from 8:00 A.M. to 4:00 P.M.

You can start tomorrow at 10:00 A.M. and plan on starting @ 10:00 A..M. every day. The guy puzzled asks, 'if the work hours are from 8 to 4, why do you want me here at 10? 'This is a government job,' the interviewer said.

'For the first two hours, we just stand around drin kin g coffee and scratching our balls.

No point in you coming in for that beacuse you don't have testicles!'

Successful?How to become Successful?

The word is success is among one of the most favourites words in this society, everybody start to scream, yell, and do whatsoever in talking that they want success and a change in their current lifestyle. The fact remain many of them still be what they are or a little improvement compare to what they have now. Why majority after attending so many motivational courses that claim to be so motivated and powerful that will inspire them to become successful in very near future? There is no problem with the motivational speaker because they are extremely successful or else will not become the speaker, the problem remain with the human being, motivation is just state of mind where it will have a very short memory. The ummp!! factor will not last long if we don't continuously act in positive way to keep the momentum goin.

However, human being who don't have much patience that they can't cope with the pace and tonnes of sacrifices. Everybody sacrifice according to every individual BUT the question is why still not successful? We need to plan, strategize and create the opportunity and many more to win over the business BUT many human just do whatever they have in mind and wait for the problem to araise then only take a look into it.

For example, this morning while i'm driving to office at 6.30am i listen to one young man who claim emotional stress that he only have one last quarter of petrol on his car and need to drive to kl city to work, stress that the petrol will dried up and can't go to work, eventually he managed to get to his destination and now worry bout how he gonna drive back..Why is this happening? Who create the emotional stress and problem? Ain't the human being created this kind of stress? This is simplistic approach to solve the problem. Can't this man just pump RM 20 nearby before drive to kl city to avoid this stress. Ain't the solution simple? But human being is still human being, still like some kind of "excitement" in life that is unneccesary. Imagine, if we are on the way to meet a potential customer and this petrol become an issue? What is the consequences of stop halfway and unable to meet the customer? This is the difference between successful and unsuccessful, there is only a very thin margin that separate both category of people.

I want to successful in my career and life, thus i monitor others and become a reflective mirror to me that certain things i must follow and certain things i must avoid. Few days ago, when i'm back to Ipoh, there is an issue with "small contribution" towards for office maintainance, yet so many objections and reluctant from many parties, i paid rental monthly that i hardly used as i'm in kl and kuching nowadays, BUT a person who said they would like to achieve big this year but spend majority their time discussing on this issue. Time are badly wasted and the cost of time wasting is actually more than "the small contribution which is less than RM 10 monthly". What if you won over the conversation and no more contribution? How much time been lost? People criticize me for actually spoil the "regulation", yes let people criticize and said whatever they want, to be successful we need to dedicate lots of time into our career on how to build more business and continue to prosperevery year.

Ain't that funny when you see on one hand, they scream and yell they want to be successful BUT on the other hand they are allocating majority of the time on this minor issue that eventually this small contribution won't kill them anywhere. Correct me if i'm wrong.

Success is not that hard if we keep focus and doin the right thing all the time and life can be very meaningful and peaceful and spend quality time with your loves one and parents and the rest of the family. When we are successful we can buy whatever we want and eat whatever we want when we can afford everything. Ain't life is beautiful when we are rich and successful, i loves it so much. Yesterday, i'm with my client for lunch at kl city and the BMW 5 series he drove was my main attraction. It really a self automated motivation to me that i will get one myself and work until i can afford it in the shortest time possible. Inspiration is everywhere, just a matter how we perceive it.

Who said if we don't attend motivation courses all the time that we are lacking behind on latest info and we can't be motivated. Only once this year i stop joining after join almost every courses locally and internationally for past 6 years, yet people said i don't behave properly. I have a guru and mentor that i work with hand in hand almost every single day, that is what i wanted for a long long time, personal coach to develop me.

I met many of my clients here in kl and everyone of them are extremely successful, i'm so blessed and lucky to meet them and eventually become my client, continue to do the right thing and we will become as successful as they are. Believe you can do it and Action, stop spending time on unneccesary things and do the right things, we will have what we need in life. Life is short, cherish every moment of it.

May God bless all of us and take care.

Wife and Girlfriend

Some people say:
Wife is a HARIMAU ...............

Girlfriend is HARI HARI MAHU


And some say:
Wife is like TV, Girlfriend is like Handphone (HP)

At home watch TV, Go out bring HP.

No money, sell TV. Got money change HP.

Sometimes enjoy TV but most of the time play with HP.

TV free for life but HP, if you don't pay, the services will be terminated.


TV is big, bulky and most of the time old but HP is cute, slim, curvy and very portable at any time.

Operational cost for TV is often acceptable but for HP is high and often demanding.


Most Important, TV got remote but HP don't have.

Last but not least.......
TV do not have virus but HP have VIRUS......
Once get it, HABIS LAH.

So better choose TV lah

SUNDAY HUMOUR

passion for success

It's been a while since i blog. I just back from work after business discussion with my father and my partner Raymond at coffee shop. Only place where we allow to have dinner until we are successful. Meantime, i just finished up reading Kazuo Inamori - Passion for Success. The author is the founder of Kyocera Corporation, one of the Japan leading entrepreneur. If still unsure about the company, this company is the main sponsor for Reading Football Club in the Barclay's Premiership.

The content of the book is almost similar to any other books that talk about success. The fact remains is that every individual would like to see themselves succeed in their career or life. But yet not many of them really passionate to success. They believe to continue to do the same work again and again and hopefully receive the pay increament at the end of the year or continually hopping from one job to another to seek better paycheck disregard the word "passion".

As for myself, i had been in my career at the 7th year now. Time really moves extremely fast and never stop moving. I had achieve some results in my career back 3 years ago and it really make me "big person" in my company. It seem i'm one of the celebrity and that it what we call "comfort zone" where we totally stop seeking improvement in life and discontinue learning and start to behave which not suppose to be. The danger hole will arrive and waiting for me if i still continue to do what i'm doing.

The ego itself will kill people if we don't manage it properly and it's not easy to handle it in reality until it really hurts you badly. Till then only we start to realize that there was a hole in front and started to plan on how to patch the hole. In reality not many people manage to turn the corner and their life is gone is just a blink of eyes.

If we are so passionate to success, are we ready to admit our own mistake? Not easy at all. But this is the first rule towards the success journey. People besides you will start to admire you that you really admit yourself and now are very much determined to turn the corner to the journey to earn many millions of dollar. Some are touch by it and gives another chance for you to prove yourself and remember opportunity does not come often, once it arrive we got to work very very hard and i put it in my own words which some not disagree which is we got to punish ourselves to the limit when the opportunity arrive. It will not guarantee success but it will gives you a very good chance to achieve success if we prepare to work very very hard and never gives up.

I hardly slept every nite and i spend most of the time travelling to seek new business. It is very dangerous because accident can happen at every corner not within our control. Thus, 1000% efforts, focus and total dedication is needed to the road to success. ONE advantage i have is i have a personal coach and mentor who are equally so fired up to succeed. Listening to him everyday is like listening to Donald Trump everyday. I decided to stop attending motivational courses locally and internationally. I was heavily criticised on making that decisions back in Ipoh. I have decided and i don't bother about the comment anymore. The most important is know what you want and get the best out of it which is the results.

People started to treat and talk to you differently once you achieve some results you never achieve before in life. Yet they are the one who criticized you like nobody when we are in deep deep shit and started to pour tonnes of cold water and even recommend you to change jobs. But today they talk differently and put you up into the sky with the hope that you will share some business ideas with them. The world is so realistic and unfair, accept it and move on in lives. I never ever complaint on anybody, everything happen for a reason and it is only ourselves to blame for own creation. I can said i really accept the fact and admit the mistake, don't ever said sorry but to work damn hard everyday to prove to yourself you are far more better than what i'm currently in order to forgive yourself.

March will end soon and my team of people still continually seek opportunity which Donald Trump said keep creating luck. Luck will come when we are so persistent to seek opportunity in business. The total amount of business we created on the first quarter is equalvalent to 6 years total business. We got to moves on, it will mean nothing if we stop now. We will continually seek opportunity whenever we meet new prospects.

Be humble all the time, there is no whatsover reason to talk big and how good we are, i will continue my father footstep to live humbly forever in my life. Make ourselves rich and stay humble.

In order to pursue success, i realize we cannot only work everyday but we also must reward ourselves from time to time. Only then, we are constantly in full steam and enegectic all the time to do our business. For example, i goes shopping once a month in KL with my lovely wife and we allocate reasonable amount of money to be spend on that day including fine dining at restaurant within the shopping mall. I don't shop if people knows me well but the satisfaction came when i able to make my wife happy. Donald Trump mentioned don't buy quantity and special offer items usually sell at low prices. If we shop, look for quality. When we continue to read Donald's message, he is trying to convey that in business, this will inculcate into a habit in our lives where we seek quality in business and don't satisfy yourself too easily. Constantly demand on ourselves to perform and deliver better compare to yesterday. Habit can't be developed in one day, it tooks time and total dedication. It doesnt mean that if we start to shop quality, then you be sucessful, it is only one part to inculcate a good business habit.

On this saturday, me, father and Raymond will go NorthPort, Klang to collect my car. I would like to thanks to dad who really support his son in difficult time and now his son got BMW- bought from Raymond at very "buddy" price. Thanks Raymond. Definitely i will not boasting around but self satisfaction is awesome. I got another new toy in my life and many many more will be on the way if we focus towards our career.

Lastly, time to get to work, cherish and remember the past, what is far more important is NOW. Do we really want success in life? if YES, don't look left and right anymore, we need POSITIVE ACTION. GAMBATEH!!!

GOODNITE.

Rest in Peace

As fellow readers of Cakap Tak Serupa Bikin already know that my grandma was pass away peacefully on friday afternoon to meet my grandfather. Thanks to everybody and sincere appreciation for those who attending or not able to attend the ceremony. May God Bless all of you, i'm fine. My job is easy become chauffuer to Tibetian Lama all the time. I become their friend now and hope it will blessed all my family members and continue hard work to ensure my career continue to prosper. Gone the past, remember and cherish, move forward is the only option to continue pursue our ultimate goal in life.

Thanks to Raymond who drive me all the way to airport from Kuching. And to Mr Alex Wong, Please don't get me that hotel anymore ok or else you're fired. Just kidding..!!!

God Blessed.

LIFE HANDBOOK

Health:

1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner
like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less
food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Make time for prayer.
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books than you did in 2008.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.


Personality:

11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what
their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control.
Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake.
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her
mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate
others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems
are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like
algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Society:

25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your
family and friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:

32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

Last but not the least:

start your journey to success right here, right now

The New Science of Getting Rich

Before i went back Ipoh yesterday, i manage to take time off to MidValley Megamall to update my Garmin GPS and it is fantastic after latest update. Then, went to ATM machine to withdraw money for weekend usage and straight head to MPH bookstore. I finish reading my OSHO's books bought in New DElhi, India.

So i bought the book by Wallace D. Wattles title "the new science of getting rich" and i read the entire book this morning. I suprised myself, the reason is that the content was so interesting that you can't even spend time to go washroom.

Below is the summary:

1) No one can live a really complete or successful life unless they're rich.

2) Everyone has the right to be free and unrestricted use of all the things they need for their fullest mental, spiritual, and physical development. Everyone have the right to be rich.

3) The tide of opportunity moves in different directions, according to the needs of the whole and the state of the society, and those who goes with the tide, instead of trying to swim against it, find an abundance of opportunities.

4) The way we do things is the direct result of the way we think about things. And to think what you really want to think is to think TRUTH, regardless of appearance.

5) Competition and Sacrifice is unneccesary and useless. You must rid yourself of the tought of competition. You are "made in the image of the Creator," here to create, not to compete for what is already created.

6) You don't have to take anything away from anyone

7) The desire for riches is simply our own capacity for larger life seeking fulfillment, so nature is friendly to your plans. Everything is naturally on your side. The universe desires you to have everything you want to have

8) "you don't have to drive sharp bargains" means you don't need to deal with them unfairly. You don't have to get something for nothing; rather, you can give everyone more than you take.

9) When you give everyone more in use value than you receive in cash value, you're adding to the life of the world with every business transaction and you don't have to beat anybody in business to get rich.

10) When you fully realize the fact that your desire for the possession of riches is at one with the desire of the supreme power for more complete expression, your faith become invincible.

GRATITUDE

a) Believe that there is one intelligent substance from which all things proceed

b) Believe that this substance gives you everything you desire

c) Relate to that intelligent substance through a feeling of deep and profound gratitude

11) The more gratefully we fix our minds on the supreme source when good things come to us, the more good things we will receive, and the more rapidly they will come. The reason for this is simply that an attitude of gratitude draws the mind closer to the source from which all blessings come

12) To fix your attention on the best is to surround yourself with the best and to become the best. The grateful mind continually perceives good things, which becomes expectation of more of the same, which becomes faith; a deep understanding and knowledge

13) To be rich is to think in the certain way. To think in the certain way, we must be clear and precise. We must form a clear and definite mental picture of what you want; you can't transmit an idea into the substance unless you have it clearly yourself

14) To become rich, all you need is to accomplish your goal so that you know what you want and to want it badly enough that it will stay in your thought.

15) Behind your clear vision must be real intention to realize it, to bring it into tangible expression.

16) To get rich, you need only to use your willpower on yourself

17) If you want to become rich, don't study poverty. Get rich is the way to help the poor. The poor don't need charity, they need inspiration. If you want to help the poor, demonstrate to them they can become rich. BUT first you must become rich

18) Give your attention wholly to riches. Do not focus on any form of poverty, lack or distress

19) An ounce of doing is worth a pound of theorizing

ACTING IN THE CERTAIN WAY

a) you must give everyone more in use value than they give you in cash value

b) forming a clear and distinct mental image of what you want

c) holding fast to your intention to get what you want

d) realizing with grateful faith that you do get what you want

20) By thought, whatever you focus on is brought to you. By action, you receive it.

21) Every day is either successful day or day of failures, and it is successful day that you get what you want. If everyday is a success, you can't fail to get rich

22) Do, every day, all that can be done that day, but don't overwork or rush blindly into your business trying to do the greatest possible number of things in the shortest possible time. Don't try to do tomorrow's work today or do a week's work in a day. It's not the number of things you do but the effectiveness of each separate action that counts as success.

23) A day or two spent in contemplating the vision of what you want and in earnest thanksgiving that you are getting it will bring your mind into such close relationship with the Supreme that you'll make no mistake when you do act

24) The desire for enhancement is inherent in all nature; it's the fundamental impulse of the universe

25) The desire to rule for self gratification has been the curse of the world

26) No matter what profession you're in, if you give increase of life to others and make them aware of that fact, they will be attracted to you, they will support your work, you will fulfill their needs and you will get rich

27) Don't wait for the "ideal" opporunity to be all that you want to be. When an opportunity to be more than you are now is presented and you feel impelled toward it, take it. It's the first step toward an even greater opportunity.

finally, to become rich act now by;

form a clear and definte mental image of the things we wish to have, to do, or to become, and we must hold this image in our thoughts, while being deeply grateful to the Supreme that all our desires are granted to us. If we wish to get rich, we must use our leisure hours comtemplating our vision, in earnest thanksgiving that the reality is being given to us.

wisdom for the day

do all that you can do effectively everyday, but do it without haste, worry, or fear. Move as quickly as you can, but never hurry. Mistakes come from acting hastily, from acting in fear and doubt, or from forgetting the right motive, which is more life to all and less to none.

Remember: the moment you begin to hurry you cease to be a creator and become a competitor, dropping back to old plane again.

-adapted from "The New Science of Getting Rich" by Wallace D. Wattles

India and Maldives

after stopover in colombo, sri lanka, we head towards new delhi and maldives for 10 days. below are some memories before i start my work again tomorrow.

pic with Gan,(Agency Manager), Francis Tan(Regional Head), myself, Mohan Raj (Rookie UM) and Pakariasamy (Unit Manager)

sailing with my colleagues

jacuzzi with khor, jack and gan

taj mahal

me and jack and taj mahal

me at winter palace, jaipur, india

mr william singh

with colleagues in heritage village hotel, new delhi

Colombo, Sri Lanka

on 4th february, on the way to new delhi, india, had a stopover in colombo, sri lanka

water city in colombo

tuk tuk ride in colombo

with jack at dutch church

with jocelyn in dolphin hotel, negombo

Blogging in Maldives

I,m in Male, Maldives now. I just took me another 3 days before i go back to kuala lumpur. After this, no more whatsoever holidays for me this year until i achieve my target with my mentor and also my dad.

It opens my eye this time while i'm in new delhi, india. i spend six days there. the weather is unpredictable cold and hot. The expenrience there remind me how hard i have to work and how much i must earn to create wealth in our lives. The level of poeverty is still quite high here. I might have to stop indian food for quite some time when i'm back to malaysia, to be honest. Anyway, only left is memnory and got to leave it behind and surge forward. I miss my parents, my dad and mom, pauline and my siblings.

The other something great is that i finished 2 books during this trip, Paolo Coelho- Flowing Like River and Confucius Says..books. I bought another 2 books in new delhi. Will finish it here before i go back home.

Thanks Pauline to look after my business while i'm here. I'll be back Saturday to continue what have been left out.

take care.

HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR

Wishing all of you happy chinese new year, may all dreams come true and stay prosperous. Gong Xi Fa Cai.

Marriage Cycle

Those who are already married may take it as a guide to improve your marriage & relationship ...DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said,'How do I know if I married the right person?'I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, 'It depends. Is that your husband?' In all seriousness, she answered 'How do you know?'Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.Here's the answer.EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse / partner . You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit) .Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience.

You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called 'falling' in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.People in love sometimes say, 'I was swept of my feet.' Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU. Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades....... .It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 'Did I marrythe right person?' And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria ofthe love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown.

People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someoneelse. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation afew years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND. SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't 'find' LASTING love. You have to 'make' it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression 'the labor oflove.' Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM.

You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specificthings you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with yourmarriage..Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity),there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exerciseprogram makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger.

It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable. .. you can 'make love'. Love in marriage is indeed a 'decision'.. . Not just a feeling. Remember this always:'God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide whoyou let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.'

New Year once again...

Its 2009, and time is clicking very fast and time for everybody to make a new resolution, new goals, new dream and so much more that everyhope hope to achieve. Looking back, 2008 is very memorable and time to wake up for myself. I enjoyed some "success" for past 2 years and achieve some results in my career but i enjoyed it when i thought i have already succeeded.

Thus, already battle the war alone for past 6 years, i felt i had much more to achieve and in quick time, can't afford to let time past without achieving anything. i had my dad to be my mentor and gosh, its tough at the begginning, had to adjust myself and i learn not only in business but how to handle myself well.


It is fun to work together with him who are damn passionate in his career and i had to salute him. I will deliver my utmost dedication, delegation, passion, to my career. To my beloved wife, you sacrifice alot for me for past year and not to disrespect others, not much women out there do what you do for me, i know is not enough but to deliver the kind of results that bring more wealth and values only the way to reward. I will work damn hard and smart to ensure we had better lives this year, nothing less can be accepted.


Mom, i will become good boy under dad guidance, don't worry as u got works need to do from now on rather than stay at home, stay healthy..i love you.


Hey, gone are the past, now look forward and i had make my New Year Must Achieve Resolution..


This afternoon, while had lunch with colleague, i make a commitment with my ever passionate colleague, Cheng Cheng, to become 2009 MRDT member. I had talk enough but to prove myself i can step to another level in my career. During past days, i want to do but not enough action, always stop and go and wasted lots of time. This morning, Unit Manager, Lee Lai Ling had given me the 2009 MDRT production goals and it is RM 460,000 FYP. Hereby, i accepted the challenge from Cheng Cheng to become MDRT.


Next, i would like to have my car in the second half of the year, earlier i had placed booking for 2.4V Toyota Camry but later withdraw after accepting my dad advice. Now, here is my dream car..


Dad, i remember the words you said to me while we are in Kuching, i wil work hand in hand with you and for you to see own son to ride his way to the top podium to receive the Champion trophy for the year 2009. Nothing is impossible if we are determined to succeed.


Then, before the year end, will have a simple yet memorable wedding dinner that you won't forget. Don't worry, if i achieve what im suppose to achieved this year, my dad won't object as long as we don't waste unneccesary money. Then, you can have all the freedom at new home ok.



Happy New Year to my millionaire partner, Raymond, no more countdown ok, no more kiki lala, shared the same dream together and achieve our success within one year..



Also not to forget my other millionaire partners, Alex, Julia, Siti, Chang, Justina, Jasmine, Pauline, my beloved parents, best wishes to everybody.